After the age of 70, never let anyone do this to you

Infantilization signals that older adults are perceived as incapable of thinking, deciding, or managing their own lives. It often stems from fear, misplaced concern, or societal ageism that equates aging with decline rather than experience. Over time, this erodes confidence and autonomy.

Research shows that older adults who continue making decisions live longer and enjoy a higher quality of life. Engaging the brain through planning, problem-solving, and even making mistakes keeps motivation and vitality alive. When people feel unheard, passivity grows, creating a cycle of diminishing control.

When control comes from family members, the effects worsen. Children or partners may confuse protection with dominance, leading older adults to surrender choices slowly—from small matters to major life decisions—until they no longer recognize themselves.

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